Child Arrangement Orders
Child arrangements after separation
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Child arrangements after separation
A divorce or separation is a difficult time for all involved. Parents will often worry about what may happen to their children. Figuring out the new arrangements for your children and how those will work on the ground can feel overwhelming.
Whilst your relationship may have come to an end, you each continue to be parents to your children. A collaborative and constructive approach will lay the best foundations for your children to feel settled with the new family arrangements. However, discussions on this can be tricky in the emotional landscape of separation, and parents may benefit from legal support to steer those conversations.
Our experienced family solicitors are here to offer tailored advice every step of the way. We work with you to resolve issues and establish practical arrangements, keeping your children’s needs at the heart of every decision.
Helping you resolve child arrangement disputes with care
Where appropriate, we aim to help families agree amicable solutions without going to court and wherever possible we encourage direct communication between parents. If parents need more structured support, our family solicitors can assist through solicitor-led negotiations or other forms of dispute resolution, such as collaborative law or mediation. Agreements reached together and on a voluntary basis can be more likely to work well in the longer term.
If all options outside of court have been explored and an agreement still cannot be reached, our family solicitors can guide you through the court process to resolve your children dispute. Regardless of the approach, our focus is to prioritise your children’s best interests and promote arrangements which will help them to feel supported and loved.
We offer a no-obligation initial consultation to understand your needs and assemble the best legal team for your case. You’ll find us approachable and supportive throughout the process.
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What are child arrangements?
Child arrangements commonly refer to where children will live and how they will share their time between their parents’ homes, both during term-times and school holidays.
Sometimes children will share their time equally between both parents’ homes. This is known as an equal shared care arrangement.
Alternatively, some children will spend more time with one parent than the other. One size does not fit all. In the absence of any safeguarding concerns, the appropriate child arrangements will often be driven by practical factors (such as where both parents live, their respective working commitments and children’s own routines).
Child arrangements are specific to each family and must be carefully tailored to meet the needs of each child.
Considerations after separation
There are lots of considerations for children following a separation, such as:
- Care arrangements during school term and holidays
- Educational arrangements including the school or nursery your children attend
- Special occasions: birthdays, Christmas, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day
- Financial considerations: costs of sports, clubs, music lessons, school fees
- Relocation: moving abroad or elsewhere in the country
- Health issues: medical treatment or care needs
- Religious considerations: how children are brought up
- Holidays: duration and timing of trips
- Handovers: managing drop-offs and pick-ups
- Name changes: whether you may change your children’s name(s)
Child arrangements FAQs
The primary focus is on protecting and furthering the welfare of the children. The law sets out a list of factors which are used to help assess whether a decision is likely to be in a child’s best interests. This is known as the ‘Welfare Checklist’ and includes:
- The wishes and feelings of the child
- Their physical, emotional and educational needs
- The likely effect on the child of any change in circumstances
- The child’s age, sex, background and any other relevant characteristics
- Any harm that the child has suffered or is at risk of suffering
- How capable the adults involved are of meeting the child’s needs
There are three types of order that can be made by the Family Court in relation to children:
- Child arrangements orders – day-to-day living arrangements
- Specific issue orders – discrete disputes (eg which school a child attends)
- Prohibited steps orders – prevent certain actions (eg changing a child’s surname)
Parents, guardians or anyone with parental responsibility can apply for these orders. Other individuals (such as grandparents) may need the court’s permission first.
Parental responsibility refers to the right and responsibility to make decisions about a child and their property.
All parents will make day-to-day decisions which involve exercising their parental responsibility; for example, what time their children will eat, what time they will go to bed, how much screen time is reasonable and who they will spend time with. Parents can make those decisions with autonomy, i.e. without having to consult the other parent.
More significant decisions, such as a change of name, change of school or relocation to another area (in the UK or overseas) must be agreed between both parents or, in the absence of an agreement, determined by the court.
A mother automatically has parental responsibility for her child from birth. A father will automatically have parental responsibility if he is married to the mother at the time of the child’s birth.
If the mother and father are unmarried, the father will only have parental responsibility if he is named on the child’s birth certificate or has obtained parental responsibility through a court order or parental responsibility agreement.
Same-sex parents who are civil partners will both have parental responsibility. Unmarried same-sex parents can acquire parental responsibility by jointly registering their child’s birth, signing a parental responsibility agreement or by obtaining a child arrangements order. Adoption is another way to gain full parental responsibility.
Other individuals may also have parental responsibility for a child. This includes anyone who is named as a person with whom a child is to live in a child arrangements order.
You will need to complete a C100 application form and file this at your local Family Court. We can help you to prepare this form and advise you on what should be included within your application.
Starting court proceedings is a significant step and can have far-reaching consequences for you, your children and the relationship you have as co-parents. Careful consideration should be given before filing an application at court - there may be another more cost-effective and less hostile way to resolve your dispute. We can help you to assess your options.
You should prioritise getting prompt legal advice. It may be possible to reduce the pressing nature of your situation without resorting to an application to court. If that’s not possible, you can make a court application on an urgent basis. A Judge will assess the urgency of your application and list a court hearing accordingly.
In some circumstances, you can make an application to court on a ‘without notice’ basis. This means that a Judge can make interim orders before the other parent is even aware of your application. This can be necessary if there is a significant risk of immediate harm to a child or yourself and there are genuine concerns that knowledge of a court application could encourage a parent to make an unsafe decision, such as removing their child from the country without consent.
Typically, it may take between 6 to 12 months before a final child arrangements order is in place. However, timescales vary greatly depending on the nature of your application, the level of dispute between you and the other parent, your geographical location and whether any serious safeguarding issues are raised.
As your children get older and circumstances change (either theirs or your own), it may be necessary to revisit the terms of a child arrangements order. The existing arrangements may no longer be suitable or reflect what is best for your children.
It is often best to raise any concerns with the other parent first, to see if you can agree to any changes directly. If you find that you cannot agree, it may be that you go through mediation or another ‘out of court’ process to try and resolve your dispute. If you still cannot agree, in most circumstances either parent can apply back to court to vary the terms of the order.
Client success stories
Helping a mother secure permission to relocate 4,000 miles away
We assisted a client in obtaining a specific issue order that allowed her to relocate with her child from London to North Carolina, over 4,000 miles away.
Achieving child arrangements, relocation and barring orders for our client
We represented a client in long-running proceedings involving several contested issues. Our client applied for a child arrangements order, a specific issue order to relocate the child within the UK, and a barring order preventing further applications for a set period. Each order was successfully secured, ensuring stability and reducing future conflict.
Securing a rare no-contact order following domestic violence
We represented a client in proceedings that resulted in a rare order for a child to have no contact with the other parent due to domestic violence during the relationship. This outcome safeguarded the child’s welfare and provided the client with peace of mind.
Securing key orders to protect children and address abuse allegations
We were instructed by a mother in Children Act proceedings where the court was close to making final orders. Acting swiftly, we secured orders transferring the case from the Magistrates’ Court to a District Judge, obtained permission to instruct an independent social worker for a Section 7 report, and ensured allegations of domestic abuse would be determined in a fact-finding hearing. Additionally, we negotiated permission to change the children’s surnames by agreement. These steps were crucial in ensuring the case was properly assessed and the children’s best interests were prioritised.
Supporting a mother’s move to America for her child’s wellbeing
We represented a mother seeking permission to relocate permanently to America with her 8-year-old son. The father opposed the move, arguing it was not in the child’s best interests. The case was highly sensitive, as the child had additional sensory and processing needs. Both parties agreed to appoint an Independent Social Worker (ISW) for a Section 7 report and resolve the matter through arbitration. After reviewing evidence and conducting interviews, the ISW found the case finely balanced but supported relocation. Following a three-day arbitration, the mother was granted permission to move, with detailed arrangements for ongoing contact between father and child.
Successfully defending against serious allegations of domestic abuse
We successfully defended a father facing extensive allegations of serious domestic abuse. Despite implacable hostility from the mother, we resisted adverse findings of fact and secured a child arrangements order in his favour, safeguarding his relationship with his child.
Achieving an amicable agreement in a complex family case
We represented a father who had relocated from China to the UK and sought more time with his children. The case involved complex family dynamics, including the mother’s health issues and restricted contact with grandparents, who made a cross-application for a child arrangements order. We worked to secure an amicable arrangement with all parties, resulting in a swift agreement and avoiding further court hearings.
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